The following emails
were our joint introduction
to the sexier side of
each other's
personalities....
SexyOne: So, you seem to have a sexual nature about you. Are you? What are you in to?
BC: Do I have a sexual nature about me? Now you are putting me on the spot, making me shy... guess I don't want to say the wrong thing!
I'd say I'm pretty interested in sex, yes. With the right person.... I want someone that is open and interested.
There was a funny Two and a Half Men episode last night. Charlie Sheen's brother "steals" Charlie's really hot looking French girlfriend. Charlie acts mad. But when the brother gets the hottie into bed, she just lies there looking bored and says "do whatever you have to". Later Charlie comments - "it's sort of like necrophilia". OK you have to see the show to get the whole thing. But you get the idea. If you are into having a good time, we would highly likely have a good time.... if you think of sex as a necessary evil in having a relationship, then it's likely not going to be fun.
What am I into? Nothing too weird. No S&M stuff. Maybe a bit more open to stuff and kinkier than the average boring guy but not way out there... Let's just start by saying I am into pleasing as much as being pleased. [Breaks into Monty Python song "sit on my face and tell me that you love me".] If you saw the results of all the sex tests I took on the dating site you would get a better idea. But you have to take them yourself so you can compare, I think. Now how's that for putting you on the spot? Since I am into pleasing, you could tell me how you like to be "pleased"... be as graphic as you want, or don't be too shy.
SexyOne: Wow a bold question.... I like it!
I liked to be pleased in many ways but I love oral. Lots of licking, no biting. I also like lots of touching and kissing. I love exploring the body with my hands and mouth. I basically like lots of attention I'm not into lots of talking and did I mention kissing is very important.
It has been a long time since the last time I had sex and I think I have calmed down a lot but back in my prime I was kind of wild. I have had threesomes (2 woman 1 guy and once 2 guys, one girl - which was a LOT of work for me), been to a swing club, sex type parties, I used love to be watched and I can't get enough of watching other people. I am not into porn but don't mind watching with my partner. I used to have a lot of toys (not anymore) but going shopping for them is always fun. I like to have sex in different places. Like the beach, the woods, the car is fun, and I had one hell of a time in Vegas.
I don't know how much more you want to hear but I have some good stories. So what about you? You weren't as detailed as I.
Love this chat
SexyOne
p.s I LOVE TO WATCH
p.s.s I LOVE TO WATCH
BC: OK, so thanks for being open.... sometimes better to have these chats face to face or at least on the phone, I was hesitant because I hate to offend but clearly you have been more adventurous than me and I LIKE THAT...
I was a late bloomer. Lost my virginity in mid twenties to a girl who picked me up in a bar in LA. I was pretty well read - lots of Penthouse Forum reading - but had pretty limited sexual experience before I got married. My wife was not very experienced either, but reasonably open... most of the time. And sometimes wild. We talked about but never did a threesome. I REALLY like going down on a girl, especially one who likes it! I like anal sex, toys, sometimes watched porn with my ex but not a big thing...
I like the idea of watching too. I have not really had the opportunity. I've had a threesome (2 girls and me) a few months ago which was fun. I've had a couple of oral experiences with guys - since I went to an all boys boarding school there was some exploration going on... and the sex part was fun but i am not attracted to guys. I was going to answer your question "What are you in to?" as simply GIRLS. I also like to write about sex. I wrote a blog for a while. and I'll tell you about that, let you read it. Later :-)
So the question is, if you like to watch and I like to watch, who are we going to watch? each other? web cam? ha ha.
SexyOne: I would love to read your blog. It sounds like fun. I can't say I am adventurous, just that I always seem to get put into situations and I liked it. I am shy by nature but I have a kinky side to me. I have had live sex over the Internet (in a private chat) I like the fact that I could tease people. Also, I would make the person watching give me instructions as to what they wanted to see. That was a huge turn on for me. I like being submissive.
In the past I have liked being tied up, blind folded, and roll playing. I enjoy very dark rooms where I can't see you only feel you. Secret: I love heavy breathing in my ear.
***And just so you know (in case we ever get this far) I am not into pain, hair pulling and only light playful biting. And you cant make any visible marks. I also don't think I like being pee ed on or pooped on ( men tend to have some crazy fantasies)
Other than that I think I am pretty open. What are some of your fantasies?
BC: Hmmmm. I think I like you LOL. I hope we get far... I'm ready to hop in my car and drive to see you right now. My car back seat needs christened anyway.
I like everything you have written. I hear you and fully agree on the pain, pee and poop. Although I think hot wax could be interesting. Licking and some light biting, good... Being tied up sound interesting, never tried it. I like to watch erotic movies... sexy movies that have a story line as well as hot sex... I recently watched a movie from Blockbuster, Pineapple, about a guy who has an affair with a stripper who is into choking, and they get into drugs and his life deteriorates... though I'm not into the choking idea... FYI I just say no to drugs altogether, always.... I didn't ask if you smoke. I don't, again never.
In general fun, loving sex, lots of kissing, mutual exploration and pleasuring is nice, kinky stuff is appealing too. I have not done Internet sex, I did have an interesting phone sex chat while sitting in my car in the back yard in the dark, with someone I met on the net... maybe we can talk later once your kids are in bed.
There is a kinky Porn movie I like a lot, The Fashionistas. Bondage, leather, S&M stuff, kinky, glass toys... well hung guys, hot girls, I thing it could be a fun movie to watch together.
Panting...
BC: I pretty much get off on anal sex and everything related to it, and I enjoy writing about it, but I want to know how you feel about it, you have not mentioned it and I'd like to hear what you have to say. it's not a deal breaker by any stretch of the imagination... in my imagination it does seem to come up a lot, even if in reality it's been a lot less prevalent!
SexyOne: Anal Sex? Well, I can tell you that for me I do like the touching and licking in that region. I like it the way you tell it in your story. When I masturbate I often think about that. I like for you to put a finger in there I have used anal beads and a double penetration dildo before. I am unable to take rough sex or a cock back there. It is way to uncomfortable for me but I have fingered a man back there before who loved it.
I am very open. Not much bothers me. I believe everyone is into their own thing and I dont judge people for it. As long as it does not involve animals or children.
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